Psychologyspeaking topic
You look at a wedding photo years later and remember what's in the picture, not what you actually felt that day. Sometimes the photo devours the memory. Does recording a moment get in the way of living it and remembering it?
— the photo-taking impairment effect
practice with this topic
Set the timer (5-30 min), take 20 seconds of prep if you like, start talking. Jot your thoughts onto the sticky-note board.
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