Psychologyspeaking topic
Social comparison theory: why do we constantly measure ourselves against other people to know where we stand? Does our happiness depend less on what we have and more on our position relative to those around us?
— Leon Festinger, social comparison theory
practice with this topic
Set the timer (5-30 min), take 20 seconds of prep if you like, start talking. Jot your thoughts onto the sticky-note board.
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