Psychologyspeaking topic
Reaction formation: being excessively polite to someone you can't stand. Can an exaggerated show of affection be covering up a hidden hostility?
— Freud, defense mechanisms (reaction formation)
practice with this topic
Set the timer (5-30 min), take 20 seconds of prep if you like, start talking. Jot your thoughts onto the sticky-note board.
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