Psychologyspeaking topic
Agreeableness in the Big Five: highly agreeable people get along with everyone but struggle to stand up for their own interests. Can being a nice person be a disadvantage?
— Costa and McCrae, the Five Factor Model
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Set the timer (5-30 min), take 20 seconds of prep if you like, start talking. Jot your thoughts onto the sticky-note board.
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