Psychologyspeaking topic
Pluralistic ignorance: everyone is privately uncomfortable, but each person stays silent thinking 'I must be the only one who feels this way.' How does a false norm stay standing like that?
— pluralistic ignorance
practice with this topic
Set the timer (5-30 min), take 20 seconds of prep if you like, start talking. Jot your thoughts onto the sticky-note board.
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