Psychologyspeaking topic
The IKEA effect: we value the things we built and sweated over ourselves more than they're worth. Does the effort we pour into a relationship or a job make it genuinely precious, or just blind us to its flaws?
— the IKEA effect (Norton, Ariely)
practice with this topic
Set the timer (5-30 min), take 20 seconds of prep if you like, start talking. Jot your thoughts onto the sticky-note board.
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