Psychologyspeaking topic
The perfectionism trap: the person who insists 'flawless or nothing' usually ends up with nothing, because no option is ever flawless. Are high standards a virtue, or a polite excuse for never moving?
— perfectionism and all-or-nothing thinking
practice with this topic
Set the timer (5-30 min), take 20 seconds of prep if you like, start talking. Jot your thoughts onto the sticky-note board.
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