Psychologyspeaking topic
Projection as a defense mechanism: we load our own jealousy onto the other person. Is the thing we criticize hardest in someone else actually our own hidden side?
— Freud, defense mechanisms (projection)
practice with this topic
Set the timer (5-30 min), take 20 seconds of prep if you like, start talking. Jot your thoughts onto the sticky-note board.
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