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'You can't buy your way into an identity,' they say, but belonging to an aesthetic today is measured almost entirely in consumption. Is an aesthetic a doorway into community, or the most expensive way to imitate belonging?
— 'you cannot buy your way into identity' discourse
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Set the timer (5-30 min), take 20 seconds of prep if you like, start talking. Jot your thoughts onto the sticky-note board.
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