Sociologyspeaking topic
When a community says 'everyone does it this way', most people may be doing it unwillingly; nobody wants to be the first to opt out. Why is a bad norm kept alive not by those who approve of it but by those who stay silent?
— the norm trap / pluralistic ignorance
practice with this topic
Set the timer (5-30 min), take 20 seconds of prep if you like, start talking. Jot your thoughts onto the sticky-note board.
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