Psychologyspeaking topic
The Stockdale paradox: the prisoners of war who survived were the ones who accepted the most brutal facts of their situation while never letting go of the faith that they would get out. Hope and realism look like opposites, so why is holding both at once the key to survival?
— the Stockdale paradox (Jim Collins, Good to Great)
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Set the timer (5-30 min), take 20 seconds of prep if you like, start talking. Jot your thoughts onto the sticky-note board.
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