Trendsspeaking topic
The self-fulfilling prophecy of online dating: if you go in convinced that 'nobody real is on these apps,' do you actually become unable to connect with anyone? Is cynicism protecting us, or writing our fate?
— self-fulfilling prophecy in digital dating research (Springer)
practice with this topic
Set the timer (5-30 min), take 20 seconds of prep if you like, start talking. Jot your thoughts onto the sticky-note board.
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