Psychologyspeaking topic
The need for relatedness in self-determination theory: when people we're attached to care about something, we start caring too. Is that why falling in love with a subject so often starts with loving the teacher?
— Deci and Ryan, the need for relatedness
practice with this topic
Set the timer (5-30 min), take 20 seconds of prep if you like, start talking. Jot your thoughts onto the sticky-note board.
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