Psychologyspeaking topic
The hedgehog's dilemma: two hedgehogs huddle together for warmth, but their spines wound each other; move apart and they freeze. Does the 'not too close, not too far' distance we look for in relationships actually exist, or is it a permanent back-and-forth?
— Schopenhauer, the hedgehog's dilemma
practice with this topic
Set the timer (5-30 min), take 20 seconds of prep if you like, start talking. Jot your thoughts onto the sticky-note board.
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