Trendsspeaking topic
The claim that dating apps don't solve men's loneliness but deepen it: why does a tool that promises connection produce more isolation? Is the problem the app, or the friendship gap around it?
— swipe fatigue friendship gap men loneliness substack
practice with this topic
Set the timer (5-30 min), take 20 seconds of prep if you like, start talking. Jot your thoughts onto the sticky-note board.
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