Psychologyspeaking topic
Personalization: taking everything as being about you. Why do we treat someone else's bad mood as our own fault?
— Beck, cognitive distortions (personalization)
practice with this topic
Set the timer (5-30 min), take 20 seconds of prep if you like, start talking. Jot your thoughts onto the sticky-note board.
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