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Is love something you find or something you build? The apps sell the promise of finding the right person, but maybe the point was never finding the right person, it was learning to be right with someone?
— finding vs building love essay
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Set the timer (5-30 min), take 20 seconds of prep if you like, start talking. Jot your thoughts onto the sticky-note board.
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