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Esther Perel's idea of 'romantic consumerism': have we become customers who shop for a partner with a checklist, demanding maximum features for minimum cost, or is that just the modern shape of self-respect?
— Esther Perel, romantic consumerism discourse
practice with this topic
Set the timer (5-30 min), take 20 seconds of prep if you like, start talking. Jot your thoughts onto the sticky-note board.
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