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Emotional labor: the work of constantly making the other person feel good in a relationship. Is it unrecognized because it's invisible, or is expecting it from love the mistake in the first place? Is love work?
— emotional labor in relationships discourse
practice with this topic
Set the timer (5-30 min), take 20 seconds of prep if you like, start talking. Jot your thoughts onto the sticky-note board.
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