Psychologyspeaking topic
Affective forecasting: why do we overestimate how happy something will make us once we get it? When we finally reach what we wanted, why does the expected joy fade so quickly?
— Gilbert & Wilson, affective forecasting
practice with this topic
Set the timer (5-30 min), take 20 seconds of prep if you like, start talking. Jot your thoughts onto the sticky-note board.
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