Psychologyspeaking topic
Affective forecasting: we constantly overestimate how happy or miserable something will make us, then adapt to it with startling speed. So how much should we trust decisions built on 'this will make me happy'?
— Daniel Gilbert, affective forecasting
practice with this topic
Set the timer (5-30 min), take 20 seconds of prep if you like, start talking. Jot your thoughts onto the sticky-note board.
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